was Willow and Drew kissing at which point Willow ha a choice -- work on her marriage or continue spending time with Drew. After continued longing glances and running into each other accidentally on purpose the second kiss happened. Willow knew exactly what she was doing when she had sex with Drew. She had plenty of time after the kisses to decide to freeze Drew out and spend more time with Michael.
When Michael found out about the second kiss he got thoroughly and completely drunk. Sasha was equally drunk when she found out Cody was her cousin. I seriously doubt they would have had sex if either of them had been sober. Does this mean the infidelity doesn't count -- of course not. But one night of drunken sex after a night of despair drinking is different than having sex with your husbands uncle after weeks of flirting and two kisses.
But this isn't about who had sex first or whose infidelity was worse. This is about what is best for the kids. The fact is that both Willow and Michael love their kids and both kids love their parents.
It is anybody's guess what the best "soap opera" solution is. I also think it is the more interesting soap option because Drew is NOT going to be happy. The look on his face when he saw Willow and Michael with their children shows he will NOT be a good sport about Willow sharing custody with Michael.
Especially with NuMichael, who I think has better chemistry with Willow than Chad -- Drew has reason to be jealous. And now that Drew is a villain instead of a boring romantic lead, I can see him doing underhanded things to create chaos between Willow and Michael.
Karen L.